Love is Conditional or Un-Conditional?

I thank God, sent you to me,For you and I were meant to be friends.

We have a bond too strong to break,We have a love no one can take.

In you, I have found a love so true; my heart is filled with love for you.

Every time I see you, my heart skips a beat,

In fact it beats new rhythm which never happened before

you make my life whole, you make my life complete.

My love for you grows more with each passing day,

The thought of your gorgeous face takes my breath away.

Those brown eyes fill my soul with happiness,

When I see there is a person who understands me well..

The feeling itself, that make me blissful;

you are there to care for me.

The day we start pouring our hearts is the happiest day of my life.

Even thinking of that day makes me smile,

I can't wait 'till I walk down that aisle.

The feeling of love, that makes one to undergo so many changes,the body,mind& the soul.The whole system that functions differently.A kind of feverish or excitement/ecstasy that flows unto the being.

how to name it?

The mind never labeled or de-coded this kind of feelings before.It is something new that flows into each fibre of the body and pulsate with cheers.The hunger is almost gone,the appetite seems to change.May be in the future,The Nano sceientist can do some reaserch on this...what is happening to our gene when one undergo love.The love that may alter the genome code, if one is so involved and imbibed.

Love is happening it is not bound to any condition like age,race,caste,religion etc.It is simply attuning of the two souls that longing to merge.They say love is blind. i dont think so,as for as i know 'love is un-conditional'.It dosen't expect anything from the other person and accepting the other person as it is.Thats why the lovers feel very warm in the presence of their beloved.They may be strange to each other a day before, and the day after, they feel one as if they lived together for many generations.The nature designs of human beings in such a way that, no one can escape or act in the hands of love.It is totally un-expressable.

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It is like some one try to fill the ocean water to a small hole digged on the ground with a little spoon!!.It is almost impossible to descripe, and here this fool tries ..

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Post effect

Love is the begining but the changes it brings in the individual is really metamorphosis.How the coal become a dimond?, it is that kind of transformation.The graphite(coal) and dimond are the same when you see its atomic structure but the quality of both are totally opposite to one another. One is so soft ; other is very hard. Infact the hardest substance on earth.It is a kind of 'ALCHEMY" the baser metal become gold.

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'Love has that much energy that alter one's quality to a different plane altogether'.

One of the experiences i like to share here is....

When i am Physically&Mentally tired and exhausted and about to sleep...when my eye brows has no enrgy to keep the shutter open,its about to fall in sleep , your thoughts flashes and awaken my heart, and dont know where i will gain the energy instantly from...whole my body is ready to jump or dive into the ocean of love.The thoughts continues and the sleep go's out of reach.It is a journey to the unknown destination, still it gives so much thrill. Each passing moments is something of new which i have never seen.(may be ignored all these time).The sea produce waves all the time but who has time to watch/witness!! only the lovers has time to witness the waves that comes and goes...that too it is that lovely when you watch in a full moon day. Each wave is unique, when you closely observe it . Just be a wave watcher for a while. your body takes different rhythm,you may notices many subtle feelings that surfaces from within you.

Veterinary Surgeon and a Woman with Limp Duck

A woman brought a very limp duck to a veterinary surgeon.
As she laid her pet on the table, the vet pulled out his stethoscope and listened to the bird’s chest. After a moment or two, the vet shook his head sadly and said, “I’m sorry, your duck, Cuddles, has passed away.”
The distressed woman wailed, “Are you sure?”
“Yes, I am sure…The duck is dead,” replied the vet.
“How can you be so sure?” she protested. “I mean you haven’t done any testing on him or anything. He might just be in a coma or something.”
The vet rolled his eyes, turned around and left the room. He returned a few minutes later with a black Labrador Retriever. As the duck’s owner looked on in amazement, the dog stood on his hind legs, put his front paws on the examination table and sniffed the duck from top to bottom. He then looked up at the vet with sad eyes and shook his head. The vet patted the dog on the head and took it out of the room.
A few minutes later he returned with a cat. The cat jumped on the table and also delicately sniffed the bird from head to foot. The cat sat back on its haunches, shook his head, meowed softly and strolled out of the room.
The vet looked at the woman and said, “I’m sorry, but as I said, this is most definitely, 100% certifiably, a dead duck.” The vet turned to his computer terminal, hit a few keys and produced a bill, which he handed to the woman.
The duck’s owner, still in shock, took the bill. “$150!” she cried, “$150 just to tell me my duck is dead!”
The vet shrugged, “I’m sorry. If you had just taken my word for it, the bill would have been $20, But with the Lab report and the Cat scan, it’s now $150.”

Aliens exist, but don't talk to them, says Stephen Hawking

Sun, Apr 25 01:00 PM
London, Apr 25 (ANI): According to Stephen Hawking, one of the world's leading scientists, aliens are out there - but instead of seeking them out, humanity should avoid any contact with them.

Hawkin's suggestions come in a new documentary series in which he reveals his latest thinking on some of the universe's greatest mysteries, reports The Times.

"To my mathematical brain, the numbers alone make thinking about aliens perfectly rational," he said. "The real challenge is to work out what aliens might actually be like."

As for the answer, he suggests, most of it will be the equivalent of microbes or simple animals - the sort of life that has dominated Earth for most of its history.

In the docu, he adds that aliens might simply raid Earth for its resources and then move on: "We only have to look at ourselves to see how intelligent life might develop into something we wouldn't want to meet. I imagine they might exist in massive ships, having used up all the resources from their home planet. Such advanced aliens would perhaps become nomads, looking to conquer and colonise whatever planets they can reach."

Hawking, now 68, who is paralysed by motor neurone disease and has very limited powers of communication, concludes that trying to make contact with alien races is "a little too risky".

He said: "If aliens ever visit us, I think the outcome would be much as when Christopher Columbus first landed in America, which didn't turn out very well for the Native Americans."

John Smithson, executive producer for Discovery, said: "He wanted to make a programme that was entertaining for a general audience as well as scientific and that's a tough job, given the complexity of the ideas involved." (ANI)

Source:- yahoo news>

http://in.news.yahoo.com/139/20100425/981/tsc-aliens-exist-but-don-t-talk-to-them.html

Learn to be a woman

Before they make a woman out of you
Learn to choose your colours
Else they'll paint you pink
And call the other half blue

Know that words can be out of metre
Not every poem has to rhyme
Love mostly sings off-key
Not every boy who calls you pretty
Has to be worth your time

Know that its alright to face failure
Dont let your demons stop you from trying
Its ok to be low when you lose
And you're not weak if you are crying

Know that your lovers will never be perfect
Boyfriends or husbands aren't earthly Gods
Fall in love without losing yourself
Fight for your rights by all odds

Virginity is not a deposit of family honour
its not to be sold to the highest bidder
How is it your fault that your body bleeds?
Shame is what you should reconsider

Those are your breasts they're oggling at
Thats your body they're trying to touch
Dont be forced to give it all up
To the boy who says "I love you so much"

Stop faking worry over bodily fat
When your soul carries uglier loads
Those dark circles should only worry you
When they're souvenirs of violent episodes

Your freedom and desires are yours to gaurd
There's no shame in wanting more
Dont be afraid to shout and scream, or punch
the man-slut who calls you a whore

Emotional blackmail is no brother to affection
Dare, Dream, Rebel, Hope and Pursue
Ladies please learn to be women
Before they make a woman out of you.

Source:- unknown Thanks to 'Parul' for this wonderful contibution

Doing, doing -- never being...OSHO

RETIRE WHEN YOUR WORK IS DONE.
"You have gained -- now let it be, enjoy it. Live it! And then you will see: a different dimension comes to your being." OSHO

WHEN YOU SEE that a work has given you balance, that you have attained happiness, don't ask for more; when you feel good don't ask for more; when you are surrounded by a well-being don't ask for more. Retire, enjoy it. Revel in it. Dance with it. Don't ask for more. The mind is always asking for more.

The mind says, "Okay, this is good, that I am feeling a certain well-being, but more is possible. So first I should attain the more." Then you miss that which was possible; that which had already become actual, you miss.

And if you listen to this mind, which goes on for more and for more and for more, it will lead you to the end, to the extreme. And suddenly you fall into hell, and you are miserable, unhappy.

Whatsoever you gain, make it a criterion: if you are feeling good, if you are feeling well, if you are feeling blissful, silent, peaceful, a certain delight around you, life has become a song for this moment -- then sing it! Don't ask for more! Chew it, absorb it.

Don't ask for more. Retire... that is the meaning of retire. Now stop further efforts -- enough! You have gained -- now let it be, enjoy it. Live it! And then you will see: a different dimension comes to your being.

There are two dimensions. One is horizontal... more, more, more -- that is the horizontal dimension. You move in a line. You are on the point A; you want to be on the point B. When you are on the point B, you want to be on the point C. Soon you will reach to XYZ. And from Z is hell. Z is the door of hell.

But you cannot stop, the mind goes on. The mind says, "Look, you are on C, and D is possible. So why waste time on C, go to D. Then E becomes possible, so go to E." No moment to enjoy, no moment to celebrate, no moment to retire and be.

Doing, doing -- never being... because being means that C is enough, now enjoy it. You have earned the bread for today -- now retire. But the mind says, "What about the safe in the bank? It is still half-filled. You have to fill it completely...."

OSHO

Thanks to-Akash for this article and picture contribution

10 most Stupid Questions

1. At the movies:When you meet acquaintances/friends
Stupid Question:- Hey, what are you doing here?
Answer:-Well,it's so hot , there were no cool cabs so I thought i'd watch some advertisements in the cool comfort of the theatre.

2. In the bus: A fat girl wearing pointed high-heeled shoes steps on your feet
Stupid Question:-Sorry, did that hurt?
Answer:-No, not at all, I'm on local anesthesia.....why don't you try again or should i try this time.

3. At a funeral: One of the teary-eyed people ask
Stupid Question:-Why, why him, of all people.
Answer:-Why? Would it rather have been you?

4. At a restaurant: When you ask the waiter
Stupid Question:-Is the "blah blah blah" dish good
Answer:-No, its teribble and made of adulterated cement.We occasionaly also spit in it.

5. At a family get-together.When some distant aunt meets you after years
Stupid Question:-Munna,Chickoo, you've become so big.
Answer:-Well you haven't particularly shrunk yourself.

6. When a friend announces her wedding, and you ask
Stupid Question:-Is the guy you're marrying good?
Answer:-No,he's a miserable wife-beating , insensitivelout...it's just the money.

7. When you get woken up at midnight by a phone call
Stupid Question:-Sorry. were you sleeping.
Answer:-No. I was playing cricket for India at Sharjah and just when you called Salim Malik was betting with me that Pakistan would win. What do you think?

8. When you see a friend/colleague with evidently shorter hair
Stupid Question:-Hey have you had a haircut?
Answer:-No, its autumn and I'm shedding......

9. At the dentist when he's sticking pointed objects in your mouth
Stupid Question:-Tell me if it hurts?
Answer:-And while I'm telling you, you tell me if I bite.

10. You are smoking a cigarette and a cute woman asks
Stupid Question:-Oh, so you smoke
Answer:-No, it's a miracle ...........it was a chalk and now it's in flames!!!

LOVE

'Carlos Slim Helu' is the 'Richest Man' in the world

The annual Forbes billionaire list says Mexico's Carlos Slim Helu is the richest man in the world, finally edging out Microsoft founder Bill Gates and signaling the rising wealth in developing nations.

The richest person in the world is Carlos Slim Helu,
but who Carlos Slim Helu? The Richest Man In The World reportedly makes $30 million a month. Carlos Slim Helu, who tops The Forbes billionaire list, is the Lifetime Honorary Chairman of Telefonos de Mexico.

Mr. Helu, whom the Christian Science Monitor weirdly described as "the portly cigar-smoker", is the first man from a developing country to become Richest Man In The World. That's another way of saying Carlos Slim Helu is the first person of color to top the Forbes billionaire list.

How Carlos Slim Helu got there is by purchasing a controlling interest in Telmex in 1990, along with a group of investors, and used that to leverage the buying of as many telecom companies in Mexico and Latin America as possible. Now, his family owns 90 percent of Mexico's telephone lines and 80 percent of its cellphone. He's used that to finance his business operations around the World.

Carlos Slim Helu owns almost 7 percent of The New York Times and in 2009 gave the Times Company a $250 million loan. He's reportedly happy with his stake in the company and has no plans to increase it.

Osho On Parenting

"You have to be grateful to existence that it has chosen you to be a passage for a few beautiful children. But you are not to interfere in their growth, in their potential. You are not to impose yourself upon them. They are not going to live in the same times, they are not going to face the same problems. They will be part of another world. Don´t prepare them for this world, this society, this time, because then you will be creating troubles for them. They will find themselves unfit, unqualified"

-Osho


Parenting- OSHO International Meditation Resort

HUMAN LIFE

Let Us Be Friendly With our Environment

Let Us Be Friendly With our Environment.
Each one of our efforts must favours to save our nature.What ever we may do let us have concern over the mother earth.

One of the stunning problem's we face in our today life is..> the massive/rapid growth of the 'E-waste'.Our industries are producing lot of new new electronic equipments/cadgets/consumables and that have been outdated within short while.Hence the growth of modern technology is very rapid and the consumers simply throw the old and ready to buy the new as per the trend that changes on a day to day basis.For example mobile phones.What we can do with these E-wastes that come to a scrap dealers?

In one our recent news shows that, About 470 tonnes of hazardous e-waste have arrived to 'Thoothukudi' harbour and our Customs Dept identified it has come from some foriegn countries with a false tag of recyclable paper. Many developed countries are finding it difficult to dispose the growing E-wastes and India is one of the targeted countries for dumping the poisonous waste. The whole world today finding it difficult to dispose/recycle these e-wastes which is very harmful and dangerous to humanity.

The picture shown above is...The mother board is dismantled for recycling process.We have to accept the truth that; there are few elements of the e-waste's which can not be recycled.What do we do with these harmful wastes ? We have to some how eradicate the manufacturing of these material and need to find a alternative solution.

All our industries need to focus to save our environment and keep it clean and green.It is my ut-most concern and like to pass unto each one of my readers.

Leasson to be Learned

"Every situation is a lesson to be learned.

From the most mundane chores to the most complex projects,

life is always ready to teach you something."

TIME..."ALL TIME"

1. There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
2. a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,

3. a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,

4. a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,

5. a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

6. a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,

7. a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,

8. a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

-Ecclesiastes 3: 1-8



13.No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.

- 1 Corinthians 10:14

The growth of population is going to fall?

The population growth of the world is going to fall drastically in the year 2050...Read this below article to know more...

NEGATIVE POPULATION GROWTH

The latest data from the Population Reference Bureau shows that there are twenty countries in the world with negative or zero natural population growth. This is unprecedented in history!

This negative or zero natural population growth means that these countries have more deaths than births or an even number of deaths and births; this figure does not include the impacts of immigration or emigration. Even including immigration over emigration, only one of the twenty countries (Austria) is expected to grow between 2006 and 2050.

The country with the highest decrease in the natural birth rate is Ukraine, with a natural decrease of 0.8% each year. Ukraine is expected to lose 28% of their population between now and 2050 (from 46.8 million now to 33.4 million in 2050).

Russia and Belarus follow close behind at a 0.6% natural decrease and Russia will lose 22% of their population by 2050 – that is a loss of more than 30 million people (from 142.3 million today to 110.3 million in 2050).

Japan is the only non-European country in the list and it has a 0% natural birth increase and is expected to lose 21% of its population by 2050 (shrinking from 127.8 million to a mere 100.6 million in 2050). The streets of Tokyo won’t be as crowded in a few decades as they are today!
Here's the list of the countries with negative natural increase or zero negative increase in population...

Ukraine: 0.8% natural decrease annually; 28% total population decrease by 2050
Russia: -0.6%; -22%
Belarus -0.6%; -12%
Bulgaria -0.5%; -34%
Latvia -0.5%; -23%
Lithuania -0.4%; -15%
Hungary -0.3%; -11%
Romania -0.2%; -29%
Estonia -0.2%; -23%
Moldova -0.2%; -21%
Croatia -0.2%; -14%
Germany -0.2%; -9%
Czech Republic -0.1%; -8%
Japan 0%; -21%
Poland 0%; -17%
Slovakia 0%; -12%
Austria 0%; 8% increase
Italy 0%; -5%
Slovenia 0%; -5%
Greece 0%; -4%

Read This Heart Melting Storey

Really heart touching.

I was walking around in a Big Bazar store making shopping, when I saw
a Cashier talking to a boy couldn't have been more than 5 or 6 years
old.


The Cashier said, 'I'm sorry, but you don't have enough money to buy
this doll. Then the little boy turned to me and asked: ''Uncle, are
you sure I don't have enough money?''

I counted his cash and replied: ''You know that you don't have enough
money to buy the doll, my dear.'' The little boy was still holding the
doll in his hand.

Finally, I walked toward him and I asked him who he wished to give
this doll to. 'It's the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so
much . I wanted to Gift her for her BIRTHDAY.


I have to give the doll to my mommy so that she can give it to my
sister when she goes there.' His eyes were so sad while saying this.
'My Sister has gone to be with God.. Daddy says that Mommy is going to
see God very soon too, so I thought that she could take the doll with
her to give it to my sister..''

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said: 'I
told daddy to tell mommy not to go yet. I need her to wait until I
come back from the mall.' Then he showed me a very nice photo of him
where he was laughing. He then told me 'I want mommy to take my
picture with her so my sister won't forget me.' 'I love my mommy and I
wish she doesn't have to leave me, but daddy says that she has to go
to be with my little sister.' Then he looked again at the doll with
sad eyes, very quietly..

I quickly reached for my wallet and said to the boy. 'Suppose we check
again, just in case you do have enough money for the doll?''

'OK' he said, 'I hope I do have enough.' I added some of my money to
his with out him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough
for the doll and even some spare money.

The little boy said: 'Thank you God for giving me enough money!'


Then he looked at me and added, 'I asked last night before I went to
sleep for God to make sure I had enough money to buy this doll, so
that mommy could give It to my sister. He heard me!'' 'I also wanted
to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mommy, but I didn't
dare to ask God for too much. But He gave me enough to buy the doll
and a white rose. My mommy loves white roses.'


I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I
started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I
remembered a local

news paper article two days ago, which mentioned a drunk man in a
truck, who hit a car occupied by a young woman and a little girl. The
little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical
state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the
life-sustaining machine, because the young woman would not be able to
recover from the coma. Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the news
paper that the young woman had passed away.. I couldn't stop myself as
I bought a bunch of white roses and I went to the funeral home where
the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make
last wishes before her burial. She was there, in her coffin, holding a
beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and
the doll placed over her chest. I left the place, teary-eyed, feeling
that my life had been changed for ever...

The love that the little boy had for his mother and his sister is
still, to this day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a
drunk driver had taken all this away from him.

Please DO NOT DRINK & DRIVE.

Now you have 2 choices:

1) Forward this message, or

2) Ignore it as if it never touched your heart.

For those who prefer to think that God is not watching over us.... go
ahead and delete this. For the rest of us..... pass this on.

The value of a man or woman resides in what he or she gives, not in
what they are capable of receiving.

Online chatting!!

Online chatting!!

A Guy WAS chatting with a female (never met her directly) - Online chat.
(Background, both are s/w engineers by the way and both work for real bigMNC’s )
Hero: Hey…GM (Good Morning)… How’s u doing today?
Female: VGM…Day is going good and it got better having found u on chat
Hero: wow…am honored, u know what, my day starts only when I find you onChat
Female: Yep…me too feel the same…Brb (be right back)’ll get someCoffee.
Hero: OK
(Hero waits impatiently. Meanwhile, his manager comes to hisseat.)
Manager: Hey, I need some help from you
Hero: [**** This guy always comes at wrong time] Yeah tell me
Manager: Could u write a program for me which generates n-th prime number,given value of n. Would you give this by today evening?
Hero: I would do that, but I think it’s quite hard, is it ok with you, if
I Give it by tomorrow evening.
Manager: Yeah, that would be fine. Thank you [Leaves the place]
(Our hero sighs and stares at his monitor waiting impatiently for Female toArrive. All of a sudden smiles on his face. Over to chat window…)



Female: Hey, am back
Hero: cool, you know what my manager does, She’s kinda….. keeps asking stupid Things, tries to give me stupid work
Female: Yeah, it’s the same everywhere. Real sick ppl these managers are!!
Hero: Yep, u rite!!
Female: Hey, can u do me a favor
Hero: *smiles* sure, why not.
Female: Hey, I want you to write me a program to print n-th prime Number;given N. Would you give that to me by tomorrow evening? Plzzz.

You know it’s real Urgent for me to work this out .


Hero: hey, that’s a one-hour’s work.

Sure check Urmail in an hour from now.ok?


Female: THIS IS WHAT I ASKED U WHEN I CAME TO YOUR WORK PLACE. NOW YOU KNOW WHO I AM!!

AND ONE MORE POINT…. YOUR 1 HOUR TIME STARTS NOW!!

Happy Pongal

' Wish you a Very Happy Pongal to all of you '

What we mean by Pongal?

We all know that it is the "Harvest Festival" and Sun god is thanked on this day.

Sun God is the father of Sani bhagwan. They are not in good terms and only one day in a year, Sun visits his son Sani at the later's residence. Sani's house name is "Makaram" (rasi-for which he is the lord of the house). Hence the festival name "Makara Sankaranthi".

Another piece of trivia. There are only three "Iswars" in our mythology.Lord Siva, the Parameshwar, Ravana the Lankeshwar, and Sani the Sanishwar.

This i read in one of the blogs.

PEOPLE ARE LIKE THAT..