“An affair is normally a symptom of problem in marriage rather than cause the marriage breakdown. The ‘Affair’ issue is an indicator of marriage problem rather than the cause of the problem. Couples who have ‘affair’ problems are encourage to use the affair as an opportunity to look into issues of their relationship and work on the issue with some professional help.”
“Communication is at the heart of intimate human relationship - it is literally the foundation on which all else built. In fact, the ability and the willingness to communicate have been found among the most important factors in maintaining a satisfying relationship.
In a marriage, as years go by, there have been some conflicts where individuals have been hurt. They may take a verbally defensive posture, or take a defensive posture by not interacting at all, which may be interpreted as passive-aggressive behaviour. Communication will then taper off and may become either hurtful or even nonexistent.
Effective communications is something that can be thought. It is also something that should come from the heart. If there is truly love left in a relationship, it should come much easier, especially if both individuals are committed to working on the marriage.
Remember, effective communication takes practice. You are going to make mistakes, and there will be some degree of conflict when trying new methods of communication or new method of any type of interaction. The payoff is tenfold: A closer relationship!”
As you know, I involved in conducting Training/Workshop etc.i am also involved in Marital counceling. So, what i found out among many people are , they all are good at their heart towards their lover/loved one.but when its comes to expression as a matter of fact very few are good at it. many others are having problem in their communication of expressing love and joy.many of these people are seems to be bit hard in their language/word they usually pick up a harsh word to correct the beloved when they commit a small mistakes/errors.This due happen because of the possessiveness / inscurity and so on.so be aware of your words when you are too much disturbed/agitated.
As you know, I involved in conducting Training/Workshop etc.i am also involved in Marital counceling. So, what i found out among many people are , they all are good at their heart towards their lover/loved one.but when its comes to expression as a matter of fact very few are good at it. many others are having problem in their communication of expressing love and joy.many of these people are seems to be bit hard in their language/word they usually pick up a harsh word to correct the beloved when they commit a small mistakes/errors.This due happen because of the possessiveness / inscurity and so on.so be aware of your words when you are too much disturbed/agitated.
i read these quotes some where,and want you to read and use it.
“Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak. Courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.”
“It is the province of knowledge to speak. And it is the privilege of wisdom to listen.”
All we know, A good communication require good listening skills. be a good listener.Many times when you listen keenly to the other person you will at ease of understanding things better.that may avoid mis-interpretation,that lead misunderstanding and spoil relationship.so be very good listener and allow the other person to complete what he/she need to say.this is what the art of listening is that is essential to "Build Greater Relationship".
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