Money Vs Love

Money Vs Love:-

There are people who run behind someone in the name of LOVE...But their whole intention is not love.They choose some one who has money.This picture shown rightly the money weight higher than love.But the fact is , it is not true love.

The true love never conditioned with money.
... ... Be alert when some one says i love you...look deep what is their intentions are...they love your money or you.Just distinguish.Do not get fooled by the fake love.There are people who chase money rather than love and thy make you sick when they find some one who has better revenue than you.They say "the money sleep with anyone; it change purse to purse often.". So do these people are.They need your body(anybody) or your money not you or your love.they are not worth or can not afford love.

If, some one says unto you, i want to live under your feet and can not leave you even a second...That means they are smarter and try to fool you by these catching words and they might use the same words with many.They are modern bitches available every where.They just want to use you.Don't get induced by their make up's..It is a kind of seduction with seducing word.

Note:-
In my many counseling sessions,
i have encountered people who faced this kind of pain..i have no words to console them.Here let this post work as a prevention rather a cure.Be alert of these whores.

LoVe

Love is the purest experience of the individual and how ever one try to explain the love to others it will be mis-spelled.because Love is totally a a private feeling of the experiencer.Here many time the experience and the experiencer became one.If the other person misunderstood your love that's normal and no complaints about it..but your own lover mistook it!! Assume the situation.but it happens.

There is no single book in the world that can teach you all about love.Your own heart pulse is your encyclopedia for your love.Love can be felt at heart.When this heart center mismatch and people start using mind the love will be lost.

Here is a situation for the shake of love when one stop/limit communication with the lover to avoid mis-communication how painful it is!! In real life there are situation that force you to do so.When one want to cry out but he can not cry how it will be!! The tears that produced by the glands can not be suppressed inside the eye's.The eye's can not hold it.It has to flow out.Same way the feeling of love can not be suppressed..it has to be expressed at least to the lover.But ,when one encounter a situation in life, where he can not talk or meet his lover ,what a pain that give to the person!! it is such a pain one can not tolerate as if the heart bleeds and stop its all function.I even wish my enemy should not undergo this pain.The whole body,mind and spirit of the person will collapse.It is a kind of hell.One can not eat food and so much physiological&psychological changes that reverse one whole personality.It is the worst pain that love offer unto anyone.It is such a turmoil..one may go out of control.

if, you ask any one love is pleasure or pain what will be the answer??
The majority says its a pleasure but in real life the pleasure is very short while.Once the honeymoon is over the pleasure ends and the pains pop's out..even then the pleasure of the past , may be it is short while, that make one to recall and re-live it in memory ...just by tolerating the pain on the background.

Hate and Love only complete the cycle of love.Love can not exit without hate.One complement the other.


All, i need to say is, In life , one can not exist without love.Love is the vital force that flow in and out of one's being one or the other way.This only make one to give up love for the shake of lover.Once done this sacrifice,the person live a life on his/her own prison.The wound can not be healed.The love expands slowly to the other beings as it can not be put inside.When one caught in love he/she can not content themselves without expressing it outside like a tears or artisan.The more one try to suppress the more it flow out with vigor force outside like a artisan falls that flow out from the earth.

If, 'You do not understand my silence

If, 'You do not understand my silence; You will not understand my words'

In any relationship many time the communication/usage of words, most of the time misunderstood,especially in a love relationship / friendship or among husband and wife.The words are powerful in other way around.Instead of expressing your true feelings. it will kill the message by wrong words.In many case's the silence is persu...asive.

The silence is 'Intended or having the power to induce action or belief'.if one doesn't understand your silence you can not make the deaf person to hear.

When the individual is stress more by using words to make the partner to understand, its seems difficult..As the words are become powerless.But the mere truth can.The truth will penetrate the other person heart and make them understand.if truth is missing in a love relationship,it is difficult.The communication will be lost even with your most beloved person whom you think is the most precious than your life.Then what is the point of using gimmicks of words!!.More importantly when the other person is too much engaged mentally just stop communicating..give him/her enough space&time to settle on his/her own.Just be aside and silently support them to become cool.

When you are truthful and full of love..that's enough.your beloved person may misunderstand but they will come back after realizing what you are.That's why i said truth penetrate..truth is like a sharp edged knife you have to handle with care..because many people won't have experience with truth, as its hurts so hard.if your friend or lover is doing injustice or innumerable lie's with you,just absorb it peacefully...i know it is difficult, but still, no other way.because you start pointing out their lies many is not courageous to accept their pseudo reality... when you absorb other persons lies and still you continue your true- cordial-relationship and support the other person whatever they do.. because the true moral support can change a person character.It is like the mother who show unconditional love to her kids even when they do blunder,as the child grow they themselves align by realizing the mothers affection.So, we to adapt this mother care with our partner,sooner or latter they will realize/understand your greatness.After all, in life no one can be perfect except the dead person.

There is a point come, when you are able to really merge with your loved one...what ever they do, they convey the truth with you.it may not just through words, but in action or non-verbal communication.When this cordial relationship happens, from there on the beauty of love blossoms..one can not contain without the other person,the heart beat in a rhythm.Here, not much of words usage is required but, a silence celebration of life that flows.Let this happen unto each one of you....

Happy week end.

Love,
Ramani.G

What is the reasons for misunderstanding ?

" The reason is we look at people as we are;
Not as they are!! ".

Misunderstanding is nothing but, simply the understanding/communication is lost between two persons/group's.

What is understanding ?
When there is a mutual respect or love is lost between people the misunderstanding come in to picture.When a person is not keen in the other person he/she find everything is wrong in that person...

The prejudice is the other major fact that cause many misunderstandings even among beloved people.Among couple/friend or family.

What is this prejudice?
It is an adverse judgement or opinion formed beforehand without good justification.

For example:- The husband about to say something to the wife,the wife not even ready to listen to him and made a full stop..same with the wife...wise versa.

We judge people just like that...
just carrying the past and we not even bother many times, what the other person are right now..Any person can change into anything anytime.

A killer may turn to mahatma or a mahatma can turn to a killer any moment...We don't know what the life is going to offer the next second!!

In a nutshell, when the love,affection,friendship/Rela​ tionship is missing, there tend to be a misunderstanding and that lead to many problems.So love all and nurture a good relationship with everyone as you can.If you happen to meet acquaintance just maintain courtship!!

its very simple, keep all your mind focused without prejudice when the other person is conversant with you..if you happen to be busy just say..i am busy and we talk latter.When you keep your mind engaged and that hinders the communication and cause misunderstanding.

Many times, i have experienced when the other person is talking, when i was not in a mood/agreeable terms, what he was talking about... i used keep mum..Thinking that this silence is wise rather arguing!! but it is not so.Your silence also can be Mis-interpreted and lead to misunderstandings.So understanding needs lot of subtle qualities.

I don't know how many of you understand what i am saying here or misunderstanding me??.. Any way i learned little about understanding the misunderstanding while writing this.

Have a nice understanding week end.

Richness

" Richness is not earning more,spending more or Saving more"
" The real RICHNESS is ; When you need no more"

Every one, out there in the world chasing after money and making all our attempts to gain so much money!! Thinking that one day we will have all richness and enjoy life..That one day is never going to come.
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The intention of making money is to enjoy or celebrate life.But we are so much pre-occupied with the money. only the obsession of making money remaining with us and that make us to do, so many works to achieve the richness.We jump from one to another company for better salary...however you jump and how much ever one may get more salary is not enough.As the inflow raises the outflow of money also subsequently raises.Slowly, slowly we become nothing but money making machines and there is no enjoyment in life.

Just remember one thing, there are so many kings came and gone..They had all richness,Still they were unable to conquer life with their richness.Making money and becoming rich is just one part of life..So, don't over do that...Because, you are going to attain nothing but miss the life here&now which is very short and so precious.

The Billgates,Infosys- Narayanmurthy etc they all made all the richness they wanted..in fact beyond their wants...Finally they gave up many of their wealth to charity.It means they want something else than money...!!Just assume that how much effort they made to attain that richness and simply give up that to a charity? Think about it. That is Life.The quality of living is more important than only accumulating wealth.

Richness or Wealth has meaning when you are there to enjoy and celebrate your life.There is a point in everyone's life comes, when you want no more; Then life happens.One will find meaning of richness...' Richness is not just the material wealth but it is more of the 'INNER RICHNESS'.That comes to one when one want no more.

SEED

"Yesterday's failures are today's seeds
that must be diligently planted to be
able to abundantly harvest
tomorrow's successes."

We often hear "The failure is the step stone for SUCCESSES" but, when it come to a practical life situation, we simply fed up after encountered a small failure!!We simply give up what ever job we may do it. once we see the first attempt was not fruitful.

Is this the way one to give up the task??
No.

We must keep on doing...not just merely trying.We many time says to some one " I WILL TRY" when they ask us some help.

This word 'TRY' Has no meaning or depth in it.It is a word that come from the throat.The try never work out.When the next time, just be aware when you use this word 'i try'...instead change try and confidently say I will 'DO' it.You will really 'Do' it.

Our failure are also due to the cause of >' Lack of deep thoughts'.
Whatever one may do, Do it with full heart.Give all your attention to the work you may be involved in.Just imbibe deep thought within you and visualize as much as you can and that brings you so much capacity to stand alone and win at last.

When you think deep you will come to know the DO's and DON'T's.When you avoid the DON'T's that save lot of your time& energy.This itself clear your path towards success.

Be A sculpture

"A Stone is broken by the last stroke,This does not mean first stroke was useless."

Success is a result of consistent /continuous effort.It only comes to those who has the will to see the end.

Just imagine a Sculpture, who make sculpture out of the raw stone need to put so much efforts to break the hard stone.He/She has to give hard st...roke to the axe by the hammer... than only , he/she can remove the un-wanted parts of the stone and finally he/she brings out the sculpture as per the desired objects.But, in the process...so much consistent effort is needed to bring out the best out of the raw stone.

The sculpture is no where, but within the stone itself.
The ordinary eye can not see that.Only the sculpture can penetrate and see the sculpture within it..He just do nothing but removing the unwanted parts of the stone and that make the stone to worshiping idols in our temple.This is what makes things ordinary to ex ordinary.

What ever work one may do, is not so important.But the involvement and the consistent effort only make one to underline their presence in their field.They may set a trend for others to follow.Just remove the hurdles out, that hinders your path of success.Just adapt the skills from a sculpture,how he identify and remove the unwanted stone and make it adorable one.